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You will become as small as your controlling desire; as great as your dominant
aspiration." James Allen
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How do you get a great girl? How do you keep her?
by Savoy, President and CEO of The Mystery Method Corporation.
Guys don’t talk about this stuff. Sure maybe once in a while your best friend
might tell you that you’re being too nice or your clothes are out of style, but
we are not bombarded with information and advice on how to succeed with women.
How NOT to Sabotage Yourself
You have been programmed with beliefs that may not suit you. If they don’t
you can learn to get rid of them and start believing in things that empower you
and give you hope and motivate you.
Discover How Wonderful You Are!
Believe in Yourself. Believe in your dreams and then get on with having a
good time.
Attraction Addiction
Guys are you an attraction addict? Do you go totally overboard with women and then
drop them when the gloss wears off? Girls, have you been seduced by one? Have
you fallen madly in love because someone 'makes you feel like a goddess'
and then found out they're not? Read this and learn to slow down...
Sexual Energy
We do have sexual energy, and we can learn to harness it in all areas of our life.
Discover what makes a man instantly attractive to a woman and vice versa?
How do you know when someone's right for you?
'Sarah and Craig met when their eyes locked
across a crowded hotel lobby. Sarah was magnetized. He was gorgeous
- and she loved his butt. Both of them were in their 50's, he divorced, she a widow'....
Find out how to climb down from the lust cloud and get clarity!
>>>more
Keys to successful Flirting
What are the keys that together unlock the doorway to being a fantastic flirt?
Discover the secrets of great flirts..
Why do people need to learn to flirt?
"Why would we need to learn how to flirt if flirting is a natural skill?"
Find out the answer to the most
question I am asked whenever I appear on TV or am interviewed in the press?
How can the psycho-technology of NLP help
you to become a more natural flirt?
We spend our entire waking [and some of our sleeping] life moving from state to
state. At one time or another we have all experienced states of calm, excitement,
confidence, joy, curiosity, compassion, love, contentedness, fun, freedom and much,
more
Kissing
When I meet a man who knows how to kiss, I’m putty in his hands.
Ladies, when you find a man for whom kissing is not a must-do prelude to
but a major part of making love; hang on to him, especially if he continues to kiss
afterwards!
Get over it
When someone leaves we need to go through the same process of grieving, acceptance
and moving on as we would if that person died.
Discover what you need to do in order to heal quickly and move on
with a smile on your face and hope for the future?
. >>more
NLP what it is and how it works
One of the great influences on my work is the psychology of NLP originated by
Richard Bandler Find out how NLP works
Love songs - the hidden menace
As 'That's no way to say goodbye' oozes out of the speakers, the tears flow
freely, the stomach churns with awful feelings, pain wracks the body and despair
fills your soul. Yep,
suicide was definitely an option when you listened to Leonard Cohen..
What can attending flirting playshop
do for you?
So many of the people I meet just don't know how to go about flirting because they
are sabotaging themselves. Find out how attending a Flirting Academy event can
change your life.
The qualities of a Success-Flirt
Short piece on what
makes a successful flirt aka Success-Flirt [SF]
How to keep a man happy
Men and women act and think differently. Instead of being irritated by and criticising
the differences, we will live more harmoniously with men when we learn to
celebrate and enjoy those differences.
What do you do when she 'flirts on your turf'.
She and he are deep in conversation. She is flashing her eyes, twirling her hair,
pouting, lip licking and touching him. She's giving out all the signals of
a woman on the prowl and she's with YOUR man! What do you do?
What I am about to suggest won't be found in any book of rules....
Man approaches
woman
A man sitting at a bar sees a beautiful woman sitting alone, and having just read
some books on ‘meeting women’ he approaches her...amusing read
I thought it was more than sex
You meet a man, you are attracted, what happens when you allow fantasy to take over
from common sense.. Find out if you're kidding
youself
Sexual Harassment v flirting
How do we know if someone is just flirting or sexually harassing us? This
begs the question ‘Who is responsible for your feelings’.
Will
we ever understand them?
Will women ever understand men and will men ever understand women? This story
reached me on the internet as a joke. I have no idea of the origin and am happy
to credit the author. Beware the danger of mind-reading
and learn to ask for clarification.
Signals of flirting
How do you know when someone is flirting with you? What signals are you sending
out and how might they be interpreted?
Cr*p Education
Why do so many people suffer from lack of self confidence. What stops so many
of us living our dreams. Why are so many people flocking to personal growth
courses to find themselves? What went wrong and how can we right it?
What is Flirting?
A new way of interpreting this natural mechanism - The dictionary on
my bookshelf defines flirting as "Behaving or acting amorously without emotional
commitment." I agree with this but I also have many other definitions of flirting.
I have chosen a very generic definition of flirting on which to base my creation
of the Flirting Academy.
Review of Speed Seduction
Guys, if you have ever fixated on a woman and thought 'She's the only one
for me'. Ross Jeffries will put you right. "There are 10 million vaginas
in the world and you think you can only get one - bullsh*t!"
Great Relationships and how to have them
Guest article by NLP Trainer Reg Connolly of Pegasus Training
Letter to a 14 year old girl
What happens is that we have natural inclinations to do things as a child. As we
get older, other people stop us. Sometimes they are right, sometimes they are wrong...
The Power of Thought
Your thoughts can influence anything from your health to who you attract into your
life. A must read..
How I got started
Read about how I developed my career in 'flirting'